CHAPTER 4
Outburst of Emotions
“Anyone can catch your eyes, but it takes someone special to catch your heart.“
Fourth year first semester wasn’t so great for me and my groupmates, it was a struggle especially in my part. Unfortunately, at the end of all the sacrifice and hard work that I’ve done for our group, the results weren’t successful.
BLURRY SITUATION
Despite of the undesirable things that happened on my academics and the stressful obligations that I had, I could say that my fourth year – first semester was very memorable. No matter how stressful I was, I became genuinely HAPPY.
After all the revelations that happened between the two of us (I and him), we became more open and comfortable with each other. He became my thesis partner which we already talked about before the semester began. Every night before we sleep, we always discuss about our thesis then eventually we began to exchanged stories and open new conversations. We never missed a night without having a single conversation even if we meet everyday in school. Most of the time we sleep late at night (between 1-3 am). Even those busy nights while were doing our school work, we still had conversations about school stuff, projects, about our profs, blockmates..etc..about US.
There was a time when we had our group reporting for one of our subjects and at the end of our report we had an intermission number and had a mini game for our block. Our game was newspaper dance and they asked us to show a demo. So him and I did the demo. Then, when the music stopped I stepped on the newspaper with him then all of a sudden he lift me up! Everyone in our class taunted us, some were laughing, giggling all those “kilig” reactions from them. Then I had a big smile and just tried to hide the “kilig” feeling. I don’t know what came into his mind on why he lifted me, but he did a great job for making me fall for him even more. The following night, I saw our video that was already posted by our block president on facebook and I just can’t remove the smile on my face.
Few days after, everyone started to tease us. People from CS department (professors, 4th year IT and CS students) keeps on asking us if we’re already “in a relationship”. At first it was cool but eventually I became annoyed by the repetition of question. One time when our group had a system checking, our professor began to tease us. Our prof asked him “kayo ba?”, followed by another question “kung ire-rate mo mga ilang percent na (about his feelings for me)?”. Then he said “bestfriend po kami…..cguro mga 99.9 percent po”. Then he mentioned something like “I’m getting there”. We just laughed and tried not to take things seriously but in my mind I thought, what does he meant by “I’m getting there”?
On the midst of everything, he opened the conversation about the issue between us. It was a bit awkward at first but then we were able to talk about it. He said that he doesn’t want to hurt my feelings because every time someone asks him, he just kept on saying “No” (that we’re not in a relationship). I told him that he shouldn’t be worried because in the first place we’re not really a couple. On the other hand, although I clearly heard him when he said we’re just best friends I took the courage to ask him about how he really feels when he’s with me. I don’t want to make an assumption, but considering his actions, gestures, the way he treated me, it was different compared on how he treated his other friends (girls). I really felt that something’s going on between the two of us that I need to clarify, that I need to hear from him.
That same night on our conversation he gave me this question, “Pag gusto na ba kitang maging girlfriend dapat pa ba kitang ligawan?”. I was speechless for few seconds, he was too presumptuous about my feelings and I was like “did he just said that?” . Then I answered back “kung ako magkakabf I want him to be the last.. and gusto ko dumaan sa tamang process of courtship and everything..”. I said that because my last relationship with my 1st boyfriend, I didn’t had any kind of courtship and at the end I was left with a broken heart. I just don’t want to make the same mistake again. Before our conversation ended he gave me his perception about relationships. His last words that night, “being in a relationship was like a trial and error kind of thing. You just have to try, it doesn’t matter whether he/she’s the one for you. There’s no guarantee that you will be together for the rest of your lives, if you’re not meant for each other then there’s pain. However, there’s always a way to move on and after moving on find someone to love again”.
LET IT RAIN
One night along our way to our groupmate’s place( for school work-related sleepover) while we were walking on the streets of Intramuros going to Cityhall, droplets of rain began to fall. Usually when it rains, he walks along with me because I always bring my umbrella. However that night, I forgot to bring it so I walked along with my friend who brought one while he walked with our groupmate (same girl that I got jealous with on Chapter 1) and they both shared the same umbrella. While we’re walking, I started to feel jealous. Yes I easily get jealous, and when I get jealous it really pisses me off and ruins my day. And yes as expected it happened. After the walk, we ride in the jeepney going to Valenzuela and guess who’s beside him? The same person he shared the umbrella with, while I sat at the end part of the jeep 9-persons away from him. While on our way, I saw them giggling maybe he’s joking or whatever. It got into my nerves but I tried to suppressed it.
When we arrived we had our dinner. He was joking around my groupmates were all laughing except me. I was in silence. Later that night, I tried to sleep (first time that I ever sleep on a group overnight). I was not in the mood and since it’s not my turn to work yet I went to the room and sleep. I woke up around 5am, all of them were already asleep while I began to my finish my task. The following night, when we’re having our conversation he opened to me about how I acted the other night. And again he was just sensitive enough to know my actions. He asked me if I’m jealous and he explained to me that I should’t be acting that way. We had a bit of arguing because he told me that I was the only one who slept early, that I should have helped him analyzing the work etc etc (since he is our leader). Then I just told him that I’m not feeling well and I finished all my work when they were all asleep. Yeah he was right I was just over reacting besides he’s not my boyfriend but sometimes I just can’t control my emotions especially when I’m in an extremely jealous mood.